A Vida Privada Dela (2019)

Decent entertainment that requires little mental engagement

This show was pretty cute. The sophisticated business woman with an embarrassing side-hobby plot was light and fun. The comedy was good for a few laughs and the romance was pretty steamy...like top-10 level steamy. Most of the plot devices are banal and contrived, but this show wasn't trying to be super deep or impactful, it was trying to deliver solid reliable entertainment and it did that really well. The lead actress is super cute with her covert fangirl hobby, which is entertaining to watch.

Since this is primarily a romance, it makes sense to me that the best scenes were the romantic ones. There's the kiss photo shoot in an alley that you'll find in many top-10 Kdrama kisses lists...but that one wasn't my favorite. The hidden gem romance scene is one where he's in her shamefully fangirled-out house and she's got him blindfolded so her secret isn't discovered and they do the typical imagination scenario where she fantasizes about what happens next but then comes back to her senses and things play out differently in reality. But dang are those imagination fantasy daydreams hot in this drama!

There are a few deeper points in the story, mostly dealing with side characters. I especially liked the way they dealt with the old photographer who was afraid to show the world he was gay. I also liked the deeper plotline with the main male character's origin story.

Basically, there is nothing wrong with this show at all, it's super fun and easy to watch. It's not epic. It's not deep. But it delivers.

Leia Mais

Cute Yet Forgettable

While cute, this story really didn't have anything substantial enough to make it unique or unforgettable.

❤ I appreciate that Sung Dok Mi never received negativity for being a fangirl, particularly from her love interest. He actively supported her hobby once it was revealed. Love the things you love, people, life is too short to regret it.

❤ Park Min Young and Kim Jae Wook certainly had chemistry, and their kiss scenes were really well executed. The other part of their love triangle, Nam Eun Gi, never made much sense to me even if I did like the actor.

❤ The supporting cast was cute, particularly Kim Bo Ra as Cindy. I wish we had gotten more of a romance between her and a certain second leading man.

❤ While the story was interesting, it never quite captured my undivided attention as it got a bit too convoluted in the end.

Leia Mais

Adorable and humorous, but a bit too long, with the wrong male lead.

I started watching this drama around the time it was released for the first time, but it didn't catch my attention much—I didn't see where the story could be going, and although i tend to enjoy Park Minyoung's works, this one didn't feel as promising, mainly because of the male lead who I thought was quite annoying.

Well, now that I decided to actually finish the show, that fact didn't change. Most of the time I still found Kim Jaewook's acting bland, lacking of expression, except for maybe a couple times when he seemed natural. Thankfully, I learned that aside from him, the whole cast is absolutely amazing, I was endeared by so many of them—they portrayed the relationships between the characters so vividly and realistically that I couldn't help smiling at their antics. I adored everyone including Seonjoo, Eungi, Geonwoo, the guy who works at the coffee shop and whose name I always forget, and even Director Uhm Sohye made me laugh several times. This is definitely one of the funniest korean dramas I've seen so far.

Despite being entertained so many times, I found the backstory of the characters and the actual "drama" part of the show disappointing—I don't understand why it was necessary to connect the dots that way, it simply didn't move me as it should've. It felt rather ridiculous and sappy, and the fact that I wasn't able to connect with Ryan Gold's character emotionally didn't help with that situation either. I was even quite bored towards the end as they dragged on the story and ended it with possibly the most corny thing one can choose for a romantic comedy.

If it wasn't for the male lead and the overly dramatic elements, this show would probably be one of my absolute favourites, and something I'd rewatch for comfort. This way, it's rather forgettable, but still a nice experience with lots of sweet moments in it. If you don't expect a life-changing show but one that you can watch when you have nothing else to do and be entertained, Her Private Life is something you'll have fun watching.

Leia Mais

Part cute part dramatic

This was a typical all-in-one romcom that unfortunately didn’t just give us cute and fluffy but also added in heavy drama and the usual amnesia and linked childhood tropes as well.

The cute parts were what I enjoyed most and seeing the FL as a fangirl made me smile. Her romance with the ML was more mature than most romcoms although there was some misunderstandings in the beginning to build a little bit of tension. Kissing was passionate and even led to the bedroom with sweet morning after scenes.

I would have been happier without all the darker elements in this story as I was in the mood for something light and fluffy. After having watched my fair share of modern Korean dramas, it is getting hard to find one that surprises me in a nice way. This drama used common elements to spice it up and I could predict what was coming next quite easily. A better watch if you’re new to Korean drama.

Leia Mais

I'm not into K-dramas but this wasn't too bad. It wasn't very original but I was expecting worse so I'm not really disappointed. However the drama could have been better or atleast much shorter.
The storyline was fun till a few episodes after they got together. After that it was kinda dull and the last 2 episodes were completely unnecessary.

I loved the chemistry between the leads and the fact that the male lead was actually charming and not an asshole. :)♡
I didn't care much for the side characters other than Cha Shin Ah + their mother and Hyo Jin ...the others were just meh...like the usual typical boring side characters shown in most K-dramas.

I don't know if anyone else feels the same but I found Deok Mi's outfits and hair in the drama too distracting..o.o not in a good way.. plus the product placement was just so obvious lol..

Kim Jae Wook though..♡

Leia Mais

Cultural Cliches

South Korea's largely homogenous population's expectations caused the writer's bad choice in the script to become an issue of "acceptable" bigotry and xenophobia, and I found it increasingly offensive as the series continued. ML's name was Ryan Gold. Everyone in Korea pronounced it "Lion". It's not that they COULDN'T say it correctly, it's that they chose to mispronounce it - every single character who had cause to use his name, probably 98% of the time. They introduced him with the mispronunciation, too. And, frequently, they laughed about him being a lion, drew pictures of lions and so forth. He tried correcting them - it didn't stick, so having some social skills, he just took a deep breath and acted as though he thought it was funny, too. It didn't matter if he was Korean by birth; he had been raised for the other 29 or so years of his life in an English speaking country and afahk only had an English/American name. Doesn't matter if he was Nigerian, Australian, Intuit, whatever -- it's insulting to not even try to say their name correctly.

Making this social faux pas even more appalling is the fact that he was the Big Boss of the company where all these folks worked. I don't know about you, but if my big boss had a name that I found hard to pronounce, I would darned well practice it in front of a mirror and on a recording so that I SHOWED RESPECT FOR MY BOSS BY SAYING HIS NAME RIGHT! If your name were "Jin Gwa Ber" and all of your subordinates, neighbors, and friends called you "Jingle Bell" over and over and over again, and laughed over how witty they were being, I guarantee that you would become more and more offended each time they did it.

Sadly, this pretty well ruined the series for me. It was typical fluff, generally sweet trying to seem deep from time to time, well cast and had some very nice sets. The music was repetitive and annoying, though. I don't think it passes the Bechdel test either. I wish I could say I liked it, but I found it increasingly appallingly bigoted as it went on --and as repulsive as a roomful of farting dogs.

Leia Mais

I thought the concept could be interesting and the first couple of episodes were OK. I soon found my interest waning as I became less and less interested in the lead characters. I just didn't feel any chemistry between them.

The chemistry between the two Parks fangirling was far more convincing than the main couple's push and pull.

Attractive stars, boring story, anytime anything interesting happens they just back off next scene.
If you are a fanboi or girl of the leads it might be worth watching but for me...

Got to episode five, got bored, skipped through six, gave up...

Already forgotten ...

Leia Mais

I don't know if it's just me getting older or KDramas nowadays are just not as great as they use to be. The main reason I kept watching was because of the main lead's relationship. However, when they got together and the only thing that was left was the plot, it got boring fast. There were so many interlocking complications between all the characters that it got confusing and frustrating. I also did not care for the side characters especially the love square going on with Da Bin and Eun Gi.

The fangirling in this drama honestly confuses me. They set up a storyline with a saesang that not only stalks the idol but also pits fans against the girl the idol is supposedly dating. There's no consequence that she faces for doing that. I just hated how they handled it. Saesangs are a real problem that idols have to deal with and what they do is actually messed up and illegal.

Although there were many things that I hated, there were also a couple of things that I thought were very different which was refreshing. I think the lead's relationship was very healthy. They both communicated their feelings to one another and that's something we don't see often. (However, their relationship seemed way too perfect to be real so it didn't feel human.) I also really liked Seon Joo's monologue about her husband. How he shielded himself behind their status and their circumstance. I felt some real emotions there and that was honestly my favorite part of the drama (aside from that ep 10 kiss.)

I'm kinda glad I dropped it because from what I read, the last few episodes probably would have driven me insane.

Leia Mais

ass.

i hate this kdrama with the entire fibre of my being. you will never understand how much i HATE this drama why did i even watch it?? it wasted so much of my time MIND YOU i watched this kdrama during COVID when i had NOTHING BETTER TO DO!!!! i shouldve literally done nothing instead of watching this trash show. why was it so revolved around the female lead being so obsessed with her idol that she STORES THE WATER BOTTLE HER IDOL THREW IN THE CROWD (and coincidentally caught) IN A GLASS CONTAINER LIKE ITS A PIECE OF ART???? girl. thats so scary. her outfits did eat though. anyway. THIS SHOW as its written is literally about her private life of being a weird fangirl obsessed FREAK over a boy band!!!!! did i mention that the love triangle was so unnecessary and stupid.....? anyway. i watched this in covid and let me tell you i have such a hard time remembering the details of this drama other than the fact that it was so horrendous and trash and ass and all of the above. i wont even attempt to rewatch and to change my mind. it took me FOREVER to complete this kdrama because of how dumb it was. the male lead was fine though. dont waste your time with this trash show. dont. dont even think about it. watch vincenzo. or the devil judge. gangnam beauty is better than this.

Leia Mais

Her character is just unbelievable. First of all I found it quite hilarious that, she had the time to both manage her job as a good professional in a highly competitive field and the fan site. I suppose in her perfect world all of the group events are after her day job and ideally White Ocean only had one schedule overseas(for the entire duration of the drama), like com' on that is absurd. Also I have personally been to a lot of k-pop concerts in Asia and let me tell you some of the fan sites are not nice sweet ladies(girls) who will pat you on the back and give you cookies. Personally I think this character is way off from the real deal.
Apart from the fan moments(which were the reason I started the drama in the first place) the story is just lame. Really if I wanted to see two man fighting over a girl, I would have gone outside to a crowded bar or something and the chances weren't even equal. The I have it all rich, guy and the one that she always considered her brother. *Where is my chair? I want to hit myself with it*
I managed to watch it up until 4th episode and after that, I went through the episodes skipping them just to see if anything interesting will happen. I gave up at episode 10.

Leia Mais

This is the classic kdrama that had a lot of potentials but stuck to follow the classic drama stereotypes.
It starts really good and funny, I was a delight that the argument of sasaeng was treated in more a funny way that usually known. But after the funny sasaeng episode ends, and the couple is made, fade into nothing.
It starts to follow the classic full of clichè dramas, where a few accidents happen and the story is elongated till the 16 episodes just because they had to finish it...

Leia Mais