Is "just being suitable" for eachother enough, does love grow slowly day by day, or is it instant and all encompassing?

This is a show about two people who meet and fall in love but have vastly different ideas of what love is... The show explores this idea indepth through the leads beautiful journey. It's all very realistic and you will sympathize with both leads in their journey to love.

HT (ML) believes love is when two people are suitable, and deep love can grow day by day. JX (FL) believes love is instant and all encompassing. And that it shouldn't be ruthless...

These two people met and fell in love. But due to their different ideas of love, they couldn't communicate properly. Their relationship was uneven from the start so that also brought up the MAIN problem in their relationship. I won't spoil it for you, but you will really enjoy how the show handles this.

Like all cdramas, there is a break up. But unlike other cdramas, the breakup in this show was NECESSARY. This is one show where we as viewers weren't even mad about the breakup cause we all realized it was needed for them to come back stronger. And STRONGER they came back.

And unlike other cdramas, the couple in this show was given MORE THAN ENOUGH SCREEN TIME together after they got back together. Everything was wrapped up well and nothing was left to the imagination.

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This was a really really good show!! I was really scared that the writers would mess up the pacing after the breakup, but to my surprise, it was done so well. We got EVERYTHING and MORE. And even without the extra episode, I wouldn't have missed anything. Episode 40 ended so well that the bonus episode was just a good cherry on top ☺️

One thing I really loved about this show is how much of a real couple HT and JX are. The writers really did their thing with that. They portrayed them really well with the everyday interactions of couples and just the mundane things real life couples do. I truly appreciate that. Lol also, I noticed HT love language is physical touch. He enjoys kissing JX so much. It was beautiful to witness.

HT and JX have now entered my top 4 couples: Ye Hua and Bai Qian being my number one (TMOPB), then Jiang Li and Duke Su (The Double), Ren Ru Yi and Ning Yuan Zhou ( A Journey To Love) and now HT and JX! I really love how Xu Kai and Seven Tan brought these characters to life.

As we all know, Seven is a really good actress. She brings all her characters to life and makes you fall in love with them. So, I wasn't expecting anything else!! For me, this is the first time I am really really admiring Xu Kai and start to see him as sexy. Lol even though I have seen majority of his dramas. This is the first time he really stood out to me. He really did justice to HT character. Looking forward to seeing them cooperate again in another drama. Preferably historical!!

I love that each character got their well and deserved ending! This is one show where I loved all the characters and enjoyed them on screen (except for the annoying ex &friend, and Zhen Di and Cheng ke) lol.

I'm not going to lie, though I was against Lili and SZZ getting together before, towards the end, I was even rooting for them. I love how the show handled Lili's character. She didn't loose her fabulous self and they didn't "dumb" her down just so she can "fit" with SZZ. She stayed true to herself and it worked out perfectly with SZZ. I really loved how all that played out!!

I guess my trust in cdrama writers is slowly coming back because of this show. Hope future shows have good writing too!! Well, off I go to rewatch from the beginning!!