Kimi to Nara Koi wo Shite Mite mo (2023)

A healthy relationship where one learns from the other

A cute relaxing short series to make you feel good.

Amane is very straightforward, a little extra, and a little loud which only gets himself hurt. He's also a little naughty which might offput some people that dislike any hints of spiceness and physicality.
But his Jokster Facade and cynical approach to relationships is quickly exposed, revealing to us a kind young boy who's lost and needs guidance.

Then comes Ryuji, a chill and respectful dude that's hard working, cares about his family and takes relationships seriously. He's the perfect match for the risk taking Amane.

It's really soothing watching the development of their relationship as both of them help each other become better people. Ryuji helps Amane find a healthy relationship to commit to and Amane helps Ryuji fulfill his duties better.

Amane was the luckiest one ouf this relationship, I hope Ryuji teaches him to not open himself up so easily. I'm sure that as long as they stay together both of them are gonna be a positive influence to each other.

Leia Mais

Short, Light, and Sweet

Subjective Gut Rating: 8.25
*don't think there are major spoilers, but just in case*

What a sweet and somewhat innocent teen drama! Why somewhat, because the first scenes showed us a different side of Amane that you don’t see for the rest of the drama. “Kimi to Nara Koi wo Shite Mito mo” aka “If It’s With You” tells the story of Amane’s growing affection for his classmate, Ryuji, after moving to Enoshima. Amane was careful in protecting his heart because of a traumatic event when he told someone of his feelings. But he can’t help but fall in love with the caring and kind Ryuji.

The seaside setting brings a different charm to this short drama, which is shorter than a movie, at about 1.5 hours long. I’m glad to see it speaks to the challenges of a teenager in coming out of the closet to his friends, and how making a joke about it has become his default defense mechanism.

On another note, this drama also reminded me a little of the popular “Kieta Hatsukoi”. We also have another lead who is unsure of his feelings after being confessed to, and needed time to process before responding. We often don't see this side of a love confession and it’s lovely to see male leads from both dramas really take the confession seriously, and give a lot of careful consideration. On the flip side, is it also selfish of Ryuji to want to keep this an one-sided love until he figures things out? How long does Amane need to wait?

Both male leads are lovely characters and that makes this drama very easy to watch. I can relate to bubbly Amane in the way he handles his feelings and the hesitation he has. He almost always wants to pull back, so he doesn’t hear the possible rejection.

If you are looking for something short, light and sweet, this is a good watch. Not a lot happens, so it could be a positive or a negative thing, depending on what you are looking for.


Completed: 11/5/2023 - Review #374

Leia Mais

When You Need Some Love In Your Life...

Overall Rating:9/10

This series isn't groundbreaking, or complex, or even exciting. It's soothing. And it is honestly amazing how it turned out considering it has the most basic plot. This is where you come to when you've had too much toxicity and you need to unwind a little bit and remind yourself of the potential you have for love. It's short. And that completely works for it - seeing how it blows all the other series with similar concepts out of the water. It doesn't need much more that two boys coming together and healing each other - that makes it a worthy watch in my book. Will definitely be rewatching - you should definitely watch this!

Leia Mais

The greenest of the all

Jan. 26, 2024

If It's With You, Japanese BL was a show that I have been seeing and hearing for the past few weeks. When I first started it, I wasn't really feeling the plot. But it got so good so quick. Every episode I was wanting more and more. The story is very simple but the execution is so well written. To think that both leads are rare breeds who are very green flag, positive people, who wants to communicate. Actually, they communicate their feelings pretty well. Any issues that might arise they will fix it asap. I love how they are able to express their feelings without hiding it to each other. They are the ideal couple that we all should be looking for. I want what they have so bad. For such highschool type of drama, I was getting so much butterfly like I am jealous that I was not able to experience such type of love.

I also find it so ironic that the drama that I didn't expect too much from becomes one of my favourites. I think the WHOLESOME factor of the show really did it for me. It stole my heart, the lovable leads too. It's only 5 episodes but there is so much depth and substance in each episodes. I might be reading it too much but the subtle actions, the symbolisms, the way they handle what other queer people feel especially when it comes to those public affection that is normal in a heterosexual couple like holding hands between queer couples and getting judgement from it. Battling the fear of the past and the lack of acceptance of our own self identity. It just hit all the bullet points.

This drama is chef's kiss and I am so happy I started my year with this show. If It's With You is now, one of my new comfort drama that I will surely be rewatching over and over again.

I think after a while, this is the first time I feel good and passionate about writing a review. I doubt many will be able to see this. But please give this show the love that it deserves.

May we all find the green flags we are destined to be and be a green flags ourselves as well.

Leia Mais

Best drama but underrated

This drama is really fantastic people who was Thai bl this seems bit different to them may be because of not much comedy scenes or kiss scenes but quite romantic and based on past bl this drama contains child hood crush, past memory and straight guy and gay relationship wow drama no much complicated twist simple and clear unfortunately we have very less episodes and if they make more episodes with 1 hr time it would have been good but still they covered all the plots without truncating I loved this drama and Japanese bl always have different vibe the voice of actors and the music story is a kind of silent I enjoyed it and recommend to all bl fans

Leia Mais

We need more BL like this!

I'm starting to like Jap BL more, esp the short one seems to be really good. I notice they tend to have more nature setting like seaside, mountain, etc, that makes it very healing to watch.

This couple is so wholesome, healthy and really cute. I mean, they actually start out as friends before turning into lovers. If you've watched too much BL like me, finally...we get reminded that lovers actually can start out as friends, not enemy or FB.

Ryuji Kun is SOOO cute! and Kudos to Amane for saying "NO" to his fb. Wow, so direct and mature at his age. See, all it takes is a simple text to prevent all the unnecessary drama or toxicity that BL tends to have. It really isn't that difficult, guys!

Despite it being somewhat "plain" (non-toxic or overly dramatic), it is actually very sweet, cute and healing.

If there's one thing I wish for, is an actual kiss scene instead of camera angle, coz hey, that would be sweet.

Oh and producer, I understand it might be a budget thing, but that public bathouse is reallllly dirty that its a bit icky when i was watching it, like I really want them to get out and wash clean haha

Other than my minor rant, it's one of my favorite BL really!

Leia Mais

Seaside, friendship, and that inimitable summer feeling

This show is something truly special and by the time I heard the opening theme for the first time I was already head over heels in love with it. It takes a simple premise - two kids meeting and forming a friendship which then develops into romance - and elevates it to a new level.
Not only are the characters incredibly endearing, they are also given a level of complexity and depth which is rare for a romance centered around high school age characters.
For instance, Amane, who has put the idea of romance behind him after a brutal rejection, is not jaded, closed-off, and celibate. Instead he is portrayed as being happily sexually active and secure in his sexuality even if he does eschew romantic relationships.

Furthermore, the progression of Amane and Ryuji's relationship is phenomenal. We get to see Amane slowly opening up and become less defensive especially where his sexuality is concerned. He slowly stops hiding behind barbed quips and preemptive self-deprecation and starts to regain some of his faith in the people around him.
Meanwhile we get to watch Ryuji deliberately opening himself up to the possibility of romance with Amane while still staying true to himself and his own feelings, which he does by being unfailingly honest both with Amane and with himself.

Add to that a beautifully scenic seaside town and an incredible soundtrack and you get one of the most charming and genuine shows I've ever seen. It is truly a rare gem that deserves to be seen and appreciated by straight and queer folk alike.
I simply cannot recommend this story highly enough, I implore any- and everyone to watch it, watch it right now.

Leia Mais

Too short with shortcomings

This is a nice romance, but they missed an opertunity to get into more details due to the short run of this series. The struggle for Ryuji was not explored in detail which is a shame because in contrast to much other series he has absolute no idea about his feelings, his wants and how to express himself. Also the "kissing" scene in the finale was more lame than romantic. I don't need hot and spicy scenes mostly seen in Thai BLs but kissing should be real not just touching lips.
What this series sets it apart from others japanes BLs is the communicaton between the main characters. They always talk it out which is really refreshing. I personally can also enjoy "My Personal Weatherman" which is 100% opposite to this series.
Overall an enjoyable series with much more realistic characters compared to many others. Also the production value was high with some sweet moments and good dialogues.

Leia Mais

ah I cried at almost every ep

ah I cried at almost every ep (not cuz of sad things but cuz it was so relatable, it's a good kind of cry ) The amount of kindness was so touching. I grew so found of them. Also honestly who wouldn't fall for Ruji-kun he is diligent, kind and understandings. I loved both mains first cuz I could relate with Amane so much but also Ruji's kindness melted my heart. I got attached to them in just 5 Ep I honestly wish this was like 30ep long and that we could follow more along their journey.

The story is very well done, it's rlly refreshing and heartwarming I was rlly touched. They made the story so intresting without using any clichés or toxic shit. I liked how honest they were and that they communicated clearly. The scenery was beautiful. Def will rewatch this in the futire when I feel down or need some comfort.

Leia Mais

For the second time, Enoshima, a small pilgrimage and tourist island visited annually by several million visitors and which is part of the Japanese city of Fujisawa with a population of half a million, is part of Greater Tokyo, the largest agglomeration in the world. For the first time in this beautiful place, the story of His: Koisuru Tsumori Nante Nakatta (2019) series unfolds, which is so great that it even slightly surpasses for me this nice, simple and honest series and two pure souls, which I deliberately chose for its shorter footage and I wanted to take a breather. That confession of love, of attraction, was "Japanese" to the core, so austere and slyly sweet that it put a smile on my face. And since I rated His: Koisiru ... 9.5, I also rate this darling serosh highly, 8.8


Už podruhé Enoshima, malý poutní a turistický ostrov, jež navštíví ročně několik milionů návštěvníků a který je součástí půlmilionového japonského města Fudžisawa, a to je součástí Velkého Tokia, největší aglomerace světa. Poprvé na tomto krásném místě se rozvíjí příběh seriálu His: Koisuru Tsumori Nante Nakatta (2019), který je skvělý tak, že ještě malinko u mě přebije tento pěkný, jednoduchý a upřímný seriál a dvou čistých duších, který jsem si schválně vybral pro jeho kratší stopáž a chtěl jsem si oddechnout. To vyznání lásky, přitažlivosti, bylo "japonské" až na půdu, tak stroze a toporně milé, až mi vykouzlilo úsměv na tváři. A protože His: Koisiru ... jsem hodnotil 9.5, tak tento miloučký seroš hodnotím také vysoko, 8.8

Leia Mais