My Personal Weatherman (2023)

My Personal Weatherman, sinceramente, è iniziato col botto e poi si è perso.
I primi episodi mi hanno fatto impazzire; nonostante gli evidenti problemi tra di loro, c’era comunque una certa intesa mista alla freddezza e al nascondere i veri sentimenti. Infatti le parti che ho amato di più sono state Yoh ubriaco e Yoh depresso proprio perché sembravano entrambi più chiari e aperti all’esprimersi, mentre il resto delle volte erano decisamente più freddi. Il declino per me è stato dopo il sesto episodio (o settimo, adesso non ricordo) perchè mi è sembrato che abbiano completamente annullato i loro problemi per raccontare la loro conoscenza all’università.
Dato i pochi episodi di una ventina di minuti ciascuno (che quindi finiscono subitissimo), mi ha dato fastidio che con tutte le cose da risolvere si concentrassero sulla loro storia passata.
Però devo dire che è anche vero che è servita, all’università mi sono piaciuti un botto perché parlavano con tranquillità e non c’erano problemi tra loro, sembravano più loro stessi e rilassati con l’altro, il che è decisamente positivo. Il vero problema è che mi è stra dispiaciuto che prima fossero così e poi, dopo essere andati a vivere assieme, sono diventati freddissimi e problematici.
Quindi per me è stato utile far vedere come tutto è iniziato ma data la quantità minima di tempo a disposizione, avrebbero dovuto aggiungere più episodi o almeno farli durare di più perchè veramente mi ha rotto come abbiano preteso di aggiustare tutto all’ultimo episodio.
Il loro amore per me è decisamente particolare, molto forte a modo loro ma decisamente tossico. Hanno evidenti problemi di comunicazione e di capacità a comprendersi, per non parlare degli atteggiamenti maniaci e ossessivi. Tutto too much per essere la parte esteriore di sentimenti così belli e puri, di sta cosa mi dispiace proprio anche perchè sono molto più favorevole alle storie meno tossiche e più pure.
Penso che sia stato fatto tutto in modo troppo eccessivo e alla fine veramente mi so detta “così sia” perchè ho capito che tanto Yoh è scemo, non capisce proprio, mi sale il nervoso.
Ho notato che nei bl giapponesi i problemi di comunicazione, la stupidità, il non sapersi relazionare, relazioni tossiche e veramente particolari e strane secondo tutti i punti di vista, e tanto altro, è tutto così diffuso; solo nei bl giapponesi vedo succedere sempre ste cose, non c’è una relazione completamente sana! (adesso uddio questa è una generalizzazione perchè non ho mica visto tutti i bl giapponesi esistenti e io in primis ne ho visti alcuni con relazioni di base decisamente sana, ma ripeto questa è una generalizzazione, dico solo che queste caratteristiche saltano fuori molto più spesso di quanto succeda nei bl di altri paesi).
Quindi quel che voglio dire con tutto ciò è che anche se la relazione è tossica, è iniziato molto bene e promettente ma poi, secondo me, si è perso un pò; speravo che si potesse fare qualcosa per aggiustare la loro comunicazione e il loro modo di approcciarsi all’altro ma così non è stato. Alla fine capisco pure il perchè non sia successa questo tipo di evoluzione, la loro relazione è nata così e così rimane, loro sono così e sono abituati a trattarsi in questa maniera. È tutto loro abitudine quindi a sto punto meglio che la cosa rimane in questa maniera, perciò mi sono arresa.
Inutile dire che tutto sto negativo non significa che la serie non mi sia piaciuta, anzi, l’ho amata lo stesso. Mi hanno fatto scazzare ma allo stesso tempo ci tengo al loro amore così particolarmente red (red flag). Contenti loro, contenti tutti.

+ pensandoci è probabile che la mia rabbia per alcune cose sia dovuta dal fatto che l'ho visto metà in onda e sti stronzi non solo fanno episodi di una ventina di minuti che pubblicano una volta a settimana, ma si so permessi pure di saltare una settimana facendomi aspettare due settimane per 20 fottuti minuti che erano pure indecenti. Dovrebbero cambiare il modo in cui mandano in onda queste serie perchè non è normale dover aspettare una settimana per 20 minuti dai.

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Unreliable narrator done right

Clever storytelling. The show starts in Yoh's perspective, and only gives us his very biased interpretation of what is going on, based on his limited information. As the character learns, so do we, and each episode reveals more of what is truly happening between the two leads. This is how stories are meant to be told. And it is super exciting to see an unreliable narrator used in BL, especially since it doesn't happen often. But because it doesn't happen often, it's somewhat risky; people can drop these stories too soon, before the whole truth can be revealed. Or they get so sold on the lie, they can't let it go even after the truth is revealed. Personally, I'm glad this show took the risk. I love stories told this way. It's clever. And I definitely recommend watching all the way through so you can judge the entire story as a whole before deciding what you think of it.

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High Reviews and Low Reviews

I fell somewhere in between - although I guess a six is on the low side.

Read many of the reviews - a lot of comments about the toxicity of this series. First of all, like everything I watch, I don't try to dig too deep - most shows have things you don't like, and things you do. BL's are no different, but I feel like the viewers are more critical. If the show was a Male Female relationship would it be labelled toxic?

There was no plot? This isn't a mystery or an action series, it's a love story... that's the plot. Was it over dramatized, maybe, but if it hadn't been, it would be labelled as boring!

I mainly rated it low because I didn't like the ending, it felt very open ended - and I can't see a second season being necessary.

I also didn't feel this should be rated R. There is no violence, the love scenes were shirts off and kissing, and then cut off. I don't mind that, I just think the rating hints at something more.

I try to watch every bl that comes out. I have a whole list just from 2023 that I would give an -0 rating, at least this one was watchable.

P.S. The good looking male was Yoh, just my opinion of course. Enjoy!

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It didn't stick the landing

Boy oh boy but do I have some conflicting feelings about this show!
I went into it with some pretty strong reservations given how viscerally uncomfortable power imbalance and consent issues in relationships (no matter how fictional) make me, but I decided to give it a go anyway because of the screenwriter and directors' involvement in shows like Jack o' Frost and Old Fashion Cupcake, both series that I absolutely adore.
Given that initial hesitancy I have to say I was both positively and negatively surprised by Taikan Yoho.

On the one hand it is technically excellent - the cinematography is brilliant, the editing and pacing are well though-out and cohesive, and the performances are stellar.
There is also the fact that the main characters' relationship, unhealthy and co-dependent as it may start out, seems to improve significantly as the show goes on, so much so that I became genuinely invested and was even sold on the idea that yeah, these two do love each other in their own, confused way don't they.
The intimacy the two share feels natural and believable even when set against the backdrop of so much emotional turmoil and denial.

On the other hand, all that promising build-up pretty much goes out the window with the final episode.
To explain:
I was surprised by how many similarities Taikan Yoho has to Utsukushii Kare, at least where the main characters' dynamic is concerned.
It's clear from the start how terrible both Mizuki and Yoh are at communicating (Yoh being especially guilty of this) and how much of their issues stem from the deep insecurities both of them seem to harbour about their relationship. But instead of making use of this premise and actually developing the characters (rather than just explaining their motivations), the show completely shoots itself in the foot by veering in distinctly the wrong direction, in my opinion.
Because rather than showing the characters taking steps towards a more even footing with one another, which is exactly what makes Utsukushii Kare work so well, they settle even more into their respective roles with Mizuki becoming uncomfortably domineering and essentially none of their misunderstandings cleared up, which makes any progress the two previously made feel completely inconsequential.
And kind of heartbreaking, too, given how Mizuki previously indicates he loves it when Yoh doesn't simply obey blindly but also shows his wants and needs.
Putting that aside, I don't even think the show works properly as a depiction of a healthy D/S dynamic.
Granted, I am not particularly well-versed in the subject so take what I say with a grain of salt (a much more reliable and in-depth analysis on the topic can be found here, should you be interested: https://www.tumblr.com/lutawolf/725726059919736832/my-person-weatherman-or-taikan-yoho?source=share), but I do know that what's most important in such relationships is communication and clearly drawn boundaries. And while Yoh's and Mizuki's relationship does bear many strong resemblances to certain types of D/S relationships, those vital features are clearly missing from their dynamic.

I don't regret having watched the show, nor would I discourage anyone else from watching it, but I do think it's important to be aware of the series' short-comings, especially where delicate but highly important topics like consent and power are concerned.
I also can't help feeling disappointed that the story didn't live up to its potential but rather falls prey to some of the most egregious cliches of the genre, especially with such a talented production team and cast .

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Serie incentrata su un romance proposto in modo piacevolmente inusuale

Serie davvero particolare. Prima BL giapponese per la sottoscritta, va detto.
Ho apprezzato la scelta inusuale - ma sarebbe bello accadesse più spesso - di trovare i due protagonisti già intimi in partenza. Questo permette di dedicare il tempo - sempre poco in queste serie di 8 episodi da 20 minuti l'una - a tutto il resto. Si salta quindi la conoscenza tra i due - anche se ci sono dei graziosi flashback - e si parte che già convivono a tutti gli effetti, pur in una relazione - non - relazione - e non ben definita. Sostanzialmente questo concetto è il fulcro della storia. Storia intesa come evoluzione amorosa della coppia, perchè altra storia non c'è. Dal punto di vista della trama è davvero una serie ridotta all'osso: qualche riferimento al lavoro di meteorologo di Mizuki, qualcuno al mondo dei manga per Yoh, e fine. Lo stesso cast conta tipo quattro attori - sei, se vogliamo conteggiare le inutili presentatrici colleghe di Mizuki - e per il resto sono una manciata di comparse. Le riprese girate quasi tutte al chiuso, e di queste la maggior parte nell'appartamento in cui convivono. Se cercate grandi ambientazioni e una trama ricca al di là della coppia, allora non è il drama che fa per voi. Se invece volete un buon romance, un po' insolito, allora mi sento sì di consigliarlo. Va detto che non è chiarissimo, la comunicazione - proprio per scelta - è ridotta all'osso e spesso poco esaustiva. Del resto l'ostacolo alla basa è proprio la mancanza di comunicazione tra i due e l'incapacità - sopratutto da parte di Yoh - di comprendere azioni e sentimenti dell'altro. Yoh, che non disegna un partner prepotente e possessivo, è però convinto di non avercelo proprio, un vero partner, e il suo credere che da parte di Mizuki non ci sia alcun sentimento fa sì che si senta vessato da tale prepotenza e possessività, invece di comprenderla e apprezzarla. Da una parte si tormenta con mille congetture e dubbi (e qui avrei preferito qualche conversazione in più e qualche paranoia mentale in meno), dall'altra si ferma all'apparenza e non prova a scavare più a fondo rispetto a ciò che vede. Ed ecco quindi che piazza una scenata di gelosia per i sorrisi che Mizuki dispensa spesso e volentieri a tutti, senza però comprendere che sono tutti sorrisi artefatti e di facciata, e che il valore è proprio nel fatto che, a lui, Mizuki non riservi tali sorrisi smaglianti. Tra le mura di casa c'è il vero Mizuki, che non deve sforzarsi di apparire, e che spera di piacere per quello che è. E, a dire il vero, qualche sorriso in realtà c'è, ma ben diverso da quello a 32 denti che mostra in televisione: è più un sorriso sghembo, quasi una smorfia divertita, e si nota solo quando sono tra di loro. Se devo trovare due pecche, avrei preferito uno Yoh un po' meno tonto - perchè fino alla fine non si capisce bene se ha capito - e, di conseguenza, un finale con una conversazione risolutiva (non dico dichiarazioni sdolcinate, per carità, ma - mantenendo il loro codice di linguaggio - una qualche uscita che facesse davvero la differenza....e dubito possa essere la richiesta di sentire dire "bentornato a casa"). Buona la chimica tra i due, scene non troppo esplicite anche se, come dicevo, la serie parte con un alto grado di intimità tra i due (forse, gli accenni più espliciti sono nel linguaggio, più che in ciò che viene mostrato, ma senza mai cadere nella volgarità). Concludendo: piacevole e diversa dal solito... Aiuta a spezzare la visione di serie che pur con trame diverse hanno di fondo lo stesso meccanismo di base.

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This show was weird…

I dunno what to even say about this BL…
I started out pretty okay I liked the first 3/4 episodes then it started getting weird with the stalking, possessive and toxic relationship.
I wanted it to end so different I really disliked the ending, nothing happened not a lot changed..
I wanted them to become a sweet and happier couple after they understood each other better yet it never happened… I feel so weird about it after seeing the last episode…..
there was a few nice and sweet screen and a few ‘hot’ scenes but it wasn’t enough to make me love this drama… I get that japanese BL’s are a different breed as seen many but this was rather odd if i’m being honest.
I wanted to like it so bad but episode 8 was really weird and not good enough to be the ending it felt empty and uneventful.

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The server and his lover

We have a weird but unique storyline out here. The main couple living in one roof wherein one serves while the other one pays the bill, is quite intriguing. Subjectively speaking, not a big fan of this genre and feel way too questionable but the drama itself is good enough to emphasize the romance and intimacy that the characters have with each other.

The main cast is just okay, nothing extraordinary, or either one of them stood the best. But I found it cute how nerdy yet hotty the side character is, the husband of the girl manga author.

I don’t have much to say in this drama; all I can say is that it is average for me. Not too bad and not too impactful for a show in general. I just wished that somehow, they tried to build a different character development to the weatherman, in a genuine and soft kind of attitude towards the manga artist.

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If Only the ending...

Like a lot of other reviews have pointed out, this show wasn’t very eventful. Not a lot happened and even though it’s only 8 episodes, I don't feel like it even needed all of those. But my main gripe of the show, isn't even with the uneventful episodes, it's with the last ending.

For anyone who's seen 'My Beautiful Man'(another Japanese BL), I kinda feel like this show was trying to do what they did. MBM, for those who don't know, is a show where the two leads are also in a relationship with a severe power imbalance. And just like in this, one of them is in charge and kinda unlikable throughout a lot of the show. And just like in this, the entire show was set from the pov of our main character aka the ‘underling’ or ‘submissive’ one in the situation. The entire show, except for the second to last episode, which was from the pov of the other lead. And just like in this, they resolved things in the end.

Unlike MBM tho, this show doesn't do a good enough job at explaining and redeeming everything Segasaki did. I understood him more yes, but I still didn't really like him or felt like a lot of his actions were now justified.
Another thing MBM did a lot better is the resolution in the last episode. The conversation they had on the bed very much felt like it was supposed to be them resolving all their gripes in a big meaningful conversation, but to me it kinda missed the mark. Yes, Segasaki clarified his feelings but they didn't really address the biggest point of contention. The ending failed to wrap up and explain to me how they are going to navigate a healthy relationship in the future.

In MBM there is also a power imbalance, maybe even more severe than here. But the entire point of that ending is that they address that and promise to navigate a relationship trying to treat each other like equals.

It's a real pity bc the characters clearly love each other and if only that conversation at the end had been done differently than I strongly believe I would've loved this a lot more. The actors did a wonderful job portraying their characters and I strongly believe that Higuchi Kouhei is the only reason I didn't HATE Segasaki's guts by the end of it.

In summary, I strongly believe that your level of enjoyment of this show will depend on what kind of viewer you are.

If you appreciate sexual scenes and if you are the type that doesn't mind 'toxicity' and enjoyed couples like VegasPete in Kinnporsche, than you'll probably like this show. But if you're like me and find it difficult to watch a show of a couple you're not really rooting for, than this show might not be for you.

It’s filmed beautifully, the characters were interesting and it had potential but I can’t help but be disappointed at the way the ending was handled.

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a unique living room drama with a lot of heart

I went into this show confused, as in I had gotten the false impression that this was a show about a man struggling with depression. And while it's not Not that... it turns out this is not the show that the tumblr gifsets showed me. I was really happy with what this show was though! Circular, slow, and domestic, what I truly loved about this show was how unique and unchanging the characters were. Very little changes about their situation throughout the show, but their understanding and point of view is completely different. Each episode is compelling and complete, despite it's bite-sized run time. It's simple, but it works really well.

-The Full Review-

STORY:
I love this story. The characters are so unique and their problems are unique to them. Several times throughout the course of the series there's the set up for an event that 99% of the world would fine completely mundane (like working with a friend a coffee shop), that the audience knows is going to be a disaster because of these two people's personalities. It's not just very fun, it's great character work. Everything feels hand-tailored to this story and this story alone.
I also truly love how understated the story, and particularly the ending of the story, is. The story fits the characters created by it and the amount of growth they've gone through in the series. It never takes the Romantic, quick fix when it's clear the characters are not ready to admit their true feelings. It's frustrating, but in a satisfying way that gives the conflict depth and truth. And it allows the ending scene to shine so brightly despite it's simplicity.

ACTING:
For the most part, I was really impressed by the acting in this series! It's pretty hard to successfully pull off characters who are so closed off and keep things so close to their chest. Both actors did a wonderful job of letting that armor crack occasionally, and showing what was brewing underneath. They built a very natural, despite the unusual circumstances, chemistry with each other that drove the entire story.
I also really appreciated the humor and energy that Manju added to the story. No part of the story really drags, but her energy and light really carries the show through the sadder and more emotional moments without becoming mired in the sadness. She played well with both leads, revealing sides of their personality that the other had never seen before.

PRODUCTION:
This was a really simple show, but all the elements of production worked together quite nicely. I think the real star of the show here is the lighting, which effortless transforms a basic apartment from something simple, to some stifling and cold, to some warm and homey over and over again as the leads clash and come to understandings. The costume design was also excellent, playing a huge role in softening Segasaki, especially in his younger years.

INTIMACY:
While the NC scenes were well done and used purposefully, I loved how what really shined in this show was the casual intimacy they clearly lacked in the beginning of the show. The most vulnerable and intimate scenes--the bath scene, Yoh getting drunk and clingy, early morning cuddling before they were both really awake--were both rare and startling in their softness.
I also really loved how many different types of intimacy were portrayed in such a short run time, with very little judgement on any of them. Particularly, the note about sex and misery (despair? can't remember the exact wording?) going hand-in-hand was a breath of fresh air. Each scene of intimacy felt specific, purposeful, and tailored to these specific characters. Very well done.

In all, I had a great time with this series and highly recommend it! They did so much justice to this premise and this script, and clearly put a huge amount of care into the series.

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